We had another ultrasound today and the verdict is in! Its a….GIRL!!! While I am surprised (I thought it was going to be a boy because my pregnancy this time around has been so different), I am so excited for another girl in our family and for Kinsley to have a sister that is close in age. Everything looked healthy and we got to see her move all around and even put her hands up to her face (like she was saying Oh no!) after she opened her legs and showed us nothing was there. Kinsley has been saying all along it was going to be a girl so I will have to say, Kinsley is 1-0, I am 0-2, and Ed is 1-1 (he was right with Kinsley and wrong with this baby).
We are working on names and having a hard time this go around. We had a boy name picked out (which we will save for the future?!!?) but not a girl name! Please feel free to throw any pretty and unique suggestions our way!
Also, we went camping one night over Memorial Day Weekend. We only went one night for a few reasons – 1)as a trail run to see how Kinsley would do and 2) it was really expensive to do two nights and we hated to pay that if she hated it and screamed like crazy. Well, to my delight, Kinsley did amazingly well! She loved biking, eating smores, sleeping in the tent (which she did well until I woke her up at 4 to put more clothes on her and she was awake for 1.5 hours), and swimming at the beach at the lake (even though Kinsley kept calling it a pond). I definitely think it is something we will do again soon, but for more than one night. It is a beast to get everything set up late one afternoon only to break it down the next morning – way too much work for me Ed (I did help but he did WAY more!). It was a fun getaway and created lots of fun memories! Enjoy the pics of our adventure!
Just a pre-warning…this post is going to be a bunch of random and thrown together thoughts about what is happening in our lives this week.
#1 – Many of you have asked what we are doing this summer. Since Ed took this position as a ministry team leader in Eastern NC, he is going through some training to better equip him for this role. Normally, we would travel to either Orlando or Colorado for this training, but this summer, we are guinea pigs – meaning they are using us to try out only have the classes in Orlando for a week but having assignments, coaching groups, and webinars online the rest of the weeks. The whole point of this is to make it cheaper and easier on families. Because of this, I was asked to go through the training as well. We are also working on raising some monthly support by gathering ministry partners so we can be at 100% support for the fall and be able to be on campus full-time.
While we have been working on ministry partner development (support) for a few weeks, we began the classes week. While it has been a little overwhelming trying to balance the workload with Kinsley, support, evaluating new staff applications, and other responsibilities, it has been good to work alongside Ed in this and to hear and learn things that I can use to encourage and help him and Kai in their roles. The only downside to all of this is that technology is very unreliable, and we have already had a number of problems with that so far.
#2 – Pregnancy is going well. I am starting to feel better this week, with a little more energy, and not getting sick as often or having to take my medicine. The only downfall is that when I do get sick now, I often don’t realize it until it is too late to take my medicine. We find out what we are having this coming Tuesday and I can’t wait! I don’t know how much Kinsley understands about the baby other than mommy has a baby in her tummy. Yesterday, she leaned down and started talking to the baby and started saying “Baby hold.” It was precious, at least until I had to try and explain to her that she couldn’t hold the baby yet.
#3 – We are going camping this weekend for our first time ever with Kinsley. We haven’t camped in forever and have been dying to go. We are just going for one night as a trail run, so please be praying that she doesn’t run away and that she enjoys it as much as we do!
#4 – Kinsley went fishing for her first time ever!! When we were at my parent’s house a few weeks ago, we took her to their pond and let her catch a few fish with her very own fishing pole. Here are a few pics from her first fishing experience:
So, on my next update, I will share all about our camping trip (which is sure to be a big adventure) and what our new addition is going to be (if this baby cooperates! – Ed has been doing some coaching and letting the baby know this is the only time he/she can have their legs spread open).
One of the things on my bucket list and my “places to visit before I die” list is New York City. So, after realizing we had some vacation money saved up and could afford to go, we decided to just do it!! We left Kinsley with Ed’s parents while we traveled as we knew it would be hard to tour around NYC with a 2 year old. It worked out well that this trip was also a celebration for our 7 year anniversary and a babymoon trip before this 2nd one makes his/her arrival!
We arrived in New York City on Tuesday morning after a very early flight! The plane trip itself was very comical as we listened to this 3 women behind us talking with a African American basketball player (he lives in NYC but plays at Middle Tennessee State Univ) about places to see in New York and how to get around as they were visiting for their first time too. The part that was funny was that they referred to themselves as “3 white people” about 4 times in the conversation. Ed and I just hung our heads as we listened knowing that with the more interaction we have had with working with different ethnicities, the more we have learned that you never, ever refer to yourself as 3 white people or 3 black people or anything of that nature. How awkward.
After arriving in NYC, we visited Central Park (we stayed only a half block away!), got lunch, visited FAO Schwartz, Times Square, and saw some famous places like the Trump Tower, Tiffanys, and the Plaza. Then, that evening we saw Wicked on Broadway. It was comical and so much better than I thought it would be! I would definitely recommend it!
On Wednesday, we went on a double decker bus tour through Downtown Manhattan. I loved getting to see the Garment District (thanks to my love of the show Project Runway), Wall Street, the Post Office, and so much more! And we learned so many things – one being that skyscrapers will buy air rights so that other buildings around them can’t build up and block their view – who knew? Then, we dined on New York style pizza, went and saw the Freedom Tower being built (in place of the World Trade Center towers), and visited the 911 memorial. The memorial was very beautiful and touching, and such a somber time remembering 9/11/2011.
Then, we went to Chinatown. We didn’t stay long here as we were exhausted, didn’t feel like haggling with people, and we have already seen Chinatowns in 2 other cities. Once you have seen one, you have seen them all. That evening, we took a night double decker bus tour which was definitely one of my favorite things we did! We traveled to Brooklyn, and got to see not only the Manhattan and Brooklyn bridges at night, but also the New York skyline. This was definitely a view and sight that I could look at every night.
On Thursday morning, we woke up super early and went to try and get on the Today show. Ed and I love watching this show in the morning, so for us, this was another highlight of the trip. We got to see how they run the show behind the scenes, see how they select people for a makeover (they selected the lady next to us!), met and got a picture with Al Roker, and meet Lenny (this is the African American guy who is there in the crowd every day holding a banner and pointing). Howard Stern was the big guest of the day – now that I could have done without – even though he is really tall!
Then we had a nice breakfast at a local breakfast joint, followed by a nap (we were wiped!), and then bike riding around Central Park. After that, I got to reconnect with my old roommate from college (and bridesmaid at our wedding), Eden. Eden came on staff with Campus Crusade after graduation and eventually left staff after a few years upon deciding to pursue international business in NYC. She is currently working while she is pursuing a MBA in international business. Since it had been years since I had seen her, it was SO REFRESHING to catch up and share our lives with each other. When I shared with her how the only thing I wanted to do that had not happened yet was to see a celebrity, she decided to tell me (the last day!) that I should come eat at her place because they have celebrities there all the time (Usher was there the night before and she said it is Beyonce and Jay-Z’s favorite restaurant). Ahhh!! That will need to be on my list for next time…track celebrities around the city.
The last thing we did was go to a Yankees game that evening. Ed LOVED being in their new stadium and was elated to find out two really good pitchers were going against each other – CC Sabathia and David Price (have never heard of him but hey, that’s not surprising. The Yankees won and all in all, it was a good game and a once in a lifetime experience!
All in all, I LOVED NYC. I felt I was really easy to adapt, find my way around, and just fall in love because it was very similar to Russia. In Russia, we were used to no one speaking our language, not having a shower (we didn’t have one on our floor in the house we stayed out in NYC nor the hotel we stayed at in Russia), nobody looking like us, walking a lot, working the subway and tram system, not having a grocery store on every corner, etc and in New York, we experienced some of the same things (yes, I know English is the main language, but with it being such a melting pot of different cultures, we heard a gazillion different languages a day). Because of it being such a melting pot and everyone bringing in their own religion and Gods, the city is very dark and needs the Lord and to hear about Christ, and if one day God decided to call us there to minister, I would go in a heartbeat (we are content in Raleigh and have no plans of this happening – just saying). Please pray for this city that Christ will be made known and the Lord will raise up laborers who are willing to preach the Gospel in this area and reach the world in effect.